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Alexis Owens

she/her
About
Alexis
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist whose work is rooted in helping individuals understand the connection between trauma, attachment, family systems, and the patterns that continue to influence their relationships, emotions, and daily lives. Throughout my career in mental health, child welfare, and behavioral health leadership, I have worked with individuals navigating anxiety, depression, grief, complex trauma, childhood adversity, relationship challenges, people-pleasing, perfectionism, identity concerns, and life transitions. Whether someone is carrying unresolved childhood wounds, struggling with self-worth after a painful relationship, learning to establish healthy boundaries, or trying to break generational cycles, my goal is to create a space where healing feels both safe and empowering. My therapeutic approach is compassionate, collaborative, and evidence-informed. I integrate Attachment Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Family Systems Theory, Narrative Therapy, strengths-based interventions, and trauma-informed care to help clients understand not only their symptoms, but the deeper stories that have shaped them. I also incorporate mindfulness, emotional regulation skills, self-compassion, and practical strategies that clients can immediately apply in their everyday lives. While developing healthy coping skills is important, I believe lasting healing requires us to understand why certain patterns exist in the first place. Rather than focusing solely on symptom management, I help clients explore the experiences that shaped their beliefs, behaviors, relationships, and emotional responses. Together, we examine family-of-origin dynamics, attachment wounds, unmet childhood needs, intergenerational patterns, and the stories clients have come to believe about themselves. Through that process, clients gain greater self-awareness, develop healthier ways of relating to themselves and others, and begin creating the life they truly desire rather than continuing to survive the one they've always known. Clients often describe my style as warm, insightful, direct, and deeply validating. I believe therapy should balance accountability with compassion by offering encouragement while also helping clients recognize the patterns that no longer serve them. I believe healing is more than symptom reduction. True healing is learning to communicate with confidence, regulate emotions without shame, build secure relationships, challenge limiting beliefs, and develop a life that aligns with your values rather than your past pain. Above all, I believe every person has the capacity to heal, rewrite their story, and build healthier relationships with themselves and with others.
In her spare time, Alexis enjoys spending time with loved ones and savoring moments of solitude to exercise, explore good food, and recharge with quiet time.
Alexis
treats clients with
Stress
Depression
Anxiety
Physical Health
Cultural or Racial Identity
Relationship Difficulties
Trauma and PTSD
Anger
ADHD
Substance Use
Life Transitions
Postpartum Mood Disorders
Sexual Issues
Sleep or Insomnia
Autism
Childhood Challenges
Weight Management
Borderline Personality Disorder
Sex/Intimacy
Communities
Alexis
specializes in
LGBTQIA+ Affirming
Men's Issues
Women's Issues
Veterans
Immigrants/Refugees
Spirituality
Older Adults
Religion
Approaches
Alexis
can use
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Panic
Narrative Therapy
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Smoking Cessation
Solution-Focused Therapy
Schema Therapy
Motivational Interviewing
Mindfulness
Dialectical Behavioral (DBT)
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Harm Reduction for Substance Use Disorders
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Social Phobia
Psychoanalytic
Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT)
Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT)
Psychodynamic
Abstinence-Only Models of Recovery
Seeking Safety
Humanistic/Transpersonal
Alexis
education and experience
  • Contra Costa County, Children & Family Services - Social Work Supervisor (Dependency Investigations)
  • Public Health Institute, AC Care Alliance - Lead Community Care Navigator (Faith-Based Advanced Illness Care Program)
  • Holy Names University - M.A. Counseling Psychology, Marriage & Family Therapy
  • California State University, East Bay - B.A. Psychology
Alexis
license information