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Desiree Aiko De Pace

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About
Desiree
"Desiree De Pace, LMFT, is deeply motivated by helping individuals reclaim their sense of agency, self-worth, and emotional balance. With over 18 years of experience in behavioral and mental health, she brings a compassionate yet direct approach to therapy — one that blends evidence-based techniques with genuine human connection. Her clinical style is integrative, drawing from Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR), and Psychodynamic Therapy. She tailors each session to meet her clients where they are — whether they are working through trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, or identity challenges. Desiree creates a collaborative and safe therapeutic space grounded in cultural competence, inclusion, and equity. She works with individuals across diverse backgrounds, including children, teens, adults, elders, and LGBTQ+ clients. Her goal is to help clients find clarity, resilience, and a renewed sense of self — even in life’s most difficult moments."

Outside of her clinical work, Desiree values creativity, mindfulness, and connection. She enjoys exploring new cuisines, traveling, camping, fishing, hiking, and spending quality time with family and friends. She also prioritizes self-care practices that keep her grounded — from reflective writing and yoga to immersing herself in nature or a good book.

Desiree
treats clients with
TDAH
Ansiedad
Autismo
Problemas de personalidad
Trastornos del estado de ánimo posparto
Psicosis
Sueño o insomnio
Estrés
Consumo de sustancias
Transgénero
Trauma y TEPT
Communities
Desiree
specializes in
Control de la ira
Agotamiento
Enfermedad crónica
Dolor crónico
Identidad cultural o racial
Divorcio
Problemas familiares
Identidad de género o sexual
Dolor
Síndrome del impostor
Infidelidad
Violencia de pareja
Asuntos masculinos
Relaciones abiertas / Poliamor
Relaciones
Transiciones de roles
Autoestima
Sexo/Intimidad
Agresión sexual
Espiritualidad
Estrés
Trauma y TEPT
Lesión cerebral traumática (LCT)
Valores y objetivos
Asuntos de la mujer
Trabajo o carrera profesional
Approaches
Desiree
can use
Aceptación y Compromiso (ACT)
Terapia cognitivo-conductual (TCC)
Centrado en las emociones
Prevención de la exposición y la respuesta (ERP)
Consciencia
Entrevista motivacional
Tratamiento del TEPT/Trauma
Psicodinámico
Buscando seguridad
Terapias somáticas
Tratamiento por abuso de sustancias
Desiree
education and experience
  • "Owner / Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist at The Therapist Near Me
  • Marriage & Family Therapist at Telemed2U
  • Marriage & Family Therapist at Kaiser Permanente
  • Marriage & Family Therapist at Feelings and Rainbows
  • Adolescent Outpatient Therapist at Phoenix House California
  • Care Manager at Cerebral, Inc.
  • Program Director at PCS Family Services
  • Parent Coordinator, Social Skills Facilitator, & ABA Therapist at Autism Learning Partners
  • Marriage & Family Therapist (Intern) at Rowland Unified School District
  • Children’s Program Intern at Human Options, Inc.
  • Masters of Science in Clinical Psychology, California State University, Fullerton
  • Bachelor of Arts in Psychology & Social Behavior, minor in Education, University of California, Irvine — summa cum laude"
Desiree
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