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We all want to feel better. What if one of the secrets to feeling better was getting better at saying how we feel?
The English language alone has about 3,000 words for emotions. But few of us use all, or even most of them. However, there’s a growing body of research in psychological science that suggests we would be better off if we did.
Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, one of the world’s most respected scientists in the field of human emotion, and her colleagues refer to this construct as emotional granularity—or, put simply, having finely tuned feelings.
When you practice emotional granularity, you have more precise tools for handling the many challenges life can throw at you. This can have a big impact on your health and well-being. Research shows that people who experience their emotions with greater granularity are less likely to resort to unhealthy strategies like binge drinking or behaving aggressively, and are more likely to:
So, how do you get better at this and start to improve your well-being? Increase your emotional vocabulary. You can do this by printing out a copy of a feelings wheel or saving one on your phone. The next time you are feeling something negative, use it to more precisely pinpoint what you are feeling.
When you are feeling “bad,” get more specific: Are you feeling bored, busy, stressed or tired? And then drill down even more: If you’re bored, are you feeling apathetic or indifferent? If you feel lonely, are you feeling isolated or abandoned?
You can also go beyond the 3,000 English emotion words and look to other languages. You might already know the German schadenfreude, meaning taking pleasure in another’s misfortune, but did you know the Filipino gigil, the urge to squeeze something that is unbearably adorable? As you learn these foreign concepts, you might be able to experience them yourself.
Once you develop this practice, you’ll be better at regulating your emotions and well on your way to feeling better.
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